Code of Ethics

Congregation Shaare Emeth Code of Ethics

Shaare Emeth is a Beit Tefilah (spiritual nourishment), a Beit Midrash (impactful Jewish learning), and a Beit Kehillah (meaningful community connections). Our values prioritize deepening connections with one another and with our faith through intentional relationship building. We lift up and live by the Reform Jewish values of honoring the image of God in every person, celebrating with one another in times of joy, caring for one another in times of need, and pursuing acts of justice in our communities and in the world.

We therefore strive to hold ourselves to the highest standards of integrity, social responsibility, and human decency. When we behave ethically and hold ourselves accountable, Shaare Emeth is a safe, welcoming, and sacred environment for all who are connected to it.

Although not encompassing every possible concern, this Shaare Emeth Code of Ethics (“Code”) provides a framework for the principles and expectations for all persons associated with Shaare Emeth, including, without limitation, members, lay leaders, clergy, and staff (“Community Members”).

All Community Members are participating in this sacred brit (covenant) to uphold this Code as an expression of our communal values and responsibilities and to hold ourselves and one another accountable with a balance of Din (justice) and Rachamim (compassion). As a living document, this Code will be reviewed regularly and revised as appropriate in light of experience and evolving needs.

Mission, Vision, and Values

Mission: At Congregation Shaare Emeth, we come together to strengthen relationships, connect with Jewish tradition, deepen spiritual engagement, and act to repair our world.

Vision: Congregation Shaare Emeth is a vibrant, inclusive center of Jewish life where every person can find a sense of belonging, meaning, joy and hope.

We are guided by these values:

  • Kehilla/Community: We are a vibrant, multigenerational community where relationships flourish and every person is valued. We honor the Divine in each individual, and welcome all who seek connection and a home in Jewish life.
  • Torah/Lifelong Learning: At all ages and stages of life, we engage deeply with Jewish wisdom, allowing timeless teachings to guide and impact our lives today.
  • Avodah/Sacred Service: Through prayer, ritual, holiday, and life cycle celebrations, we seek and create moments of holiness in our lives and in the life of our community.
  • Tikkun Olam/Repairing the World: We act with compassion and moral courage to stand for justice, pursue peace, and heal our world.
  • Hineni/Presence and Responsibility: We choose to be present, offering our time, resources, and care to one another, to our St. Louis community, to the Jewish people here and in Israel, and to those who struggle around the world.

Inclusivity & Respect

Every individual who engages with our community is valued and is created B’tzelem Elohim (in the image of God) and deserving of respect. To that end, Community Members will:

  • Conduct themselves with mutual respect.
  • Refrain from lashon hara (negative talk, gossip, and slander).
  • Demonstrate a spirit of collaboration, openness, and mutual support.
  • Treat all individuals with dignity and fairness.
  • Foster respectful dialogue even when opinions differ, seeking common ground.
  • Encourage participation from individuals of all ages and backgrounds in leadership roles.

Personal Responsibility

We commit to acting with integrity and holding ourselves to the highest moral standards within and beyond our community. This entails setting an example through our actions and being mindful to avoid any conduct that could be perceived as unethical. This behavior includes, but is not limited to:

  • Acting with Emet v’Yosher (honesty and integrity) in both word and deed.
  • Maintaining the highest ethical standards in all financial dealings.
  • Avoiding conflicts of interest and improper influence on decision-making.
  • Avoiding decisions regarding hiring, firing, recognition, discipline, or contracting which are influenced by personal interests or improper considerations.
  • Protecting congregational assets and intellectual property from misuse.
  • Reporting unethical or illegal conduct promptly to a member of the Ethics Committee.
  • Practice teshuvah (repentance) when mistakes occur, demonstrating humility.

Social and Public Persona

We must be mindful of when our personal communications could be misconstrued as representing the views of Shaare Emeth, and refrain from communications that are offensive, abusive, unlawful, or inconsistent with the ethical standards of our community. When in doubt, we consider whether our behavior upholds the principles of Kavod (respect), Emet (truth), and Shmirat Halashon (guarding our speech).

Community Members are expected to use social media related to Shaare Emeth in accordance with policies or guidance that Shaare Emeth may adopt from time to time. Whether posting in a personal or professional capacity, we commit to communicating with respect, integrity, and responsibility, including, without limitation:

  • Avoiding sharing content that is inconsistent with Shaare Emeth’s values.
  • Refraining from disclosing confidential, private, or sensitive information about Shaare Emeth’s matters, members, staff, or volunteers.
  • Taking care not to disclose details about Shaare Emeth programming, security procedures, or personal information of others, all of which have safety and security implications.
  • Posting or sharing items that we created, have permission to use, or are clearly free to share.
  • Striving to represent Shaare Emeth fairly and constructively.

Personal Boundaries and Harassment

As Community Members, we must ensure that personal boundaries are always respected. We also are responsible for responding appropriately to allegations or discovery of boundary-crossing by others. Community Members shall never:

  • Engage in any act or behavior that exploits the vulnerability of another, takes advantage of a power imbalance, compromises one’s moral integrity, or creates an intimidating, offensive, abusive, or hostile environment.
  • Use a position or authority to intimidate, bully, or unduly influence others or allow other Community Members to do so.
  • Engage in abusive, harassing, or bullying behavior or unlawful discrimination.

We abide by the Jewish precept of “Do not stand idly by” (Leviticus 19:16). As members in a Jewish community, we have an ethical obligation to protect victims of abuse or neglect when made aware of such circumstances. Community Members with a professional obligation to report circumstances of abuse or neglect must follow applicable professional guidelines and laws.

Inclusion & Discrimination

As Community Members, we embrace the principle of Arevut Hadadit (mutual responsibility), recognizing that the well-being of each Community Member is bound to the well-being of us all. Belonging at Shaare Emeth means both being cared for and caring for others, guarding the inherent dignity of every person, and committing to honoring and appreciating diversity in all its forms. We strive to foster an environment of respect, fairness, and belonging for all Community Members. Every person is to be treated with dignity and without bias or exclusion. We affirm the value of Shayachut, the deep sense of belonging that connects each person to Shaare Emeth and to the Jewish people. We strive to ensure that every individual feels recognized, welcomed, and integral to our community.

Confidentiality

We affirm the value of Shmirat HaLashon (guarding our speech) and uphold the dignity of every individual by maintaining the confidentiality of all who entrust us with personal information. Personal and financial information is confidential and should not be discussed or disclosed without permission. Care should be taken to ensure that confidential conversations are kept private and that any documents containing confidential information are not left in the open or inadvertently shared. Under certain circumstances, however, it may be necessary to share otherwise confidential information to avoid harm. Special diligence is also required for employment discussions. Community Members shall:

  • Protect information to which they have access by way of a “need-to-know” to support our professional roles in Shaare Emeth, including personnel information related to employment status or progression, compensation, performance management, etc.
  • Discourage the seeking of employment-related information about others.
  • Refrain from speculation about other Community Members’ personal situations (e.g., health, financial difficulty, etc.).
  • Refrain from sharing, even with family members, information obtained in confidence (e.g., in an executive session of a board meeting).

Conflicts of Interest

In keeping with the Torah’s commandment of Lo Tikach Shochad (do not take a bribe) and the Jewish value of Yosher (integrity), those in positions of authority and influence, including members of the board, officers, and staff members, must conduct all congregational business in a manner that is morally, ethically, and fiscally of the highest order and can bear public scrutiny at all times. Conduct should consistently reflect the best interests of Shaare Emeth, in full compliance with applicable laws and regulations. For our purposes, a “conflict of interest” means one or more of these scenarios as well as other situations of a similar nature or effect:

  • A Community Member or a close family member has a direct or indirect interest, financial or otherwise, in the outcome of any transaction or matter involving Shaare Emeth.
  • A Community Member has considerations or competing loyalties, whether real or perceived, that could reasonably impair independent judgment or the ability to act in the best interests of Shaare Emeth.
  • A Community Member acts or seeks to act on behalf of Shaare Emeth without full disclosure and appropriate approval from relevant Shaare Emeth leaders.
  • A Community Member discloses or uses proprietary or confidential information concerning Shaare Emeth, its deliberations, or Community Members for a purpose unrelated to Shaare Emeth’s interests.
  • A Community Member uses their position with Shaare Emeth to secure a personal advantage or benefit for themselves or others.
  • A Community Member uses Shaare Emeth’s property or resources for personal benefit or other unauthorized purposes.

Reporting and Enforcement

The Ethics Committee shall serve as the guardian of Shaare Emeth’s Code and as the reporting and enforcement body. Its role is to ensure that ethical concerns are addressed with fairness, compassion, and integrity, in a manner consistent with Jewish values and the best interests of Community Members. A Community Member who is approached with a concern or complaint should respond with sensitivity and compassion, refrain from forming or expressing judgments about any party, and promptly refer the matter to a member of the Ethics Committee. Community Members should not attempt to investigate, resolve, or adjudicate the concern independently. The following are the designated individuals who shall serve as members of the Ethics Committee:

  • Board President
  • Board 1st Vice President
  • Executive Director
  • Senior Rabbis
  • Human Resources Committee Chair

Shaare Emeth and Community Members shall not harass, take adverse action against, or engage in any other form of retaliation against any person who makes a good faith report of a violation or suspected violation of law, regulations, policy, or this Code. This applies to good faith internal and external reports to outside agencies with jurisdiction over the matter reported. This protection does not apply to anyone who deliberately makes a false accusation of a violation or suspected violation.

Complaints, investigations, information, and documentation about alleged or suspected violations of this Code, and related information, will be kept confidential to the extent possible, consistent with the need to conduct an adequate and timely investigation and to prevent imminent harm. No one shall disseminate any information regarding a complaint or the facts and circumstances relating to such matters, except as necessary to conduct a fair, adequate, and timely investigation, to prevent imminent and substantial harm to affected persons or Shaare Emeth, or as otherwise required by law.

Code of Ethics Review and Revision

Review and revision of the Code is a recurring responsibility of Shaare Emeth and is essential to ensuring the Code’s currency and relevance, and to enhancing its accuracy and comprehensiveness. Modifications to the Code may be proposed to the Ethics Committee and approved by the Board of Trustees.

Rabbi Jeffrey Stiffman

Rabbi Emeritus of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Emeritus Jeffrey Stiffman received his undergraduate degree from Loyola College and was ordained in 1965 at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati, Ohio. He earned his Ph.D. in Theology in 1972. He served as Assistant Rabbi of Shaare Emeth from 1965-1968 and was named Senior Rabbi in 1971, serving in that capacity until his retirement in 2004, when he was named Rabbi Emeritus. During his tenure, Rabbi Stiffman and his staff instituted many innovative programs of worship, education, and social justice. Rabbi Stiffman and his wife, Arlene, have three adult children and eight grandchildren.

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Rabbi Morgan Tobey

Assistant Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Morgan Tobey joined the congregation as Assistant Rabbi on July 1, 2026, bringing with her a deep commitment to Jewish learning, leadership, and community building. Originally from Dallas, Texas, Rabbi Tobey’s Jewish journey began during her undergraduate years at the University of Southern California, where her involvement with Hillel introduced her to rabbinical students who challenged her assumptions about Judaism and inspired her own path to the rabbinate. She earned a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science from USC before returning to Dallas, where she worked as an elementary and early childhood educator and served in numerous lay leadership roles at Temple Emanu-El.

Rabbi Tobey was ordained in May 2026 from Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute of Religion, where she also earned a Master of Arts in Hebrew Literature and a Certificate in Jewish Organizational Leadership from the Zelikow School of Jewish Nonprofit Management. During her time at HUC-JIR, she distinguished herself as a talented leader and community builder, receiving the Burton Lehman Prize in Jewish Leadership, the Sylvia Levenstein Prize in Human Relations, and the Gavi Klonsky Award for Amitz Lev—recognizing spirit, character, and strength of heart. Her rabbinical training included service to the Community Synagogue of Rye, Cornell University Hillel, and her classmates as Student Association President.

Outside of synagogue life, you can find Rabbi Tobey cheering on the Dallas Cowboys and Dallas Wings, obsessing over Amy Poehler’s podcast, and planning Disney trips!

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Rabbi Andrew Terkel

Associate Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Andrew Terkel joined Congregation Shaare Emeth as Associate Rabbi in 2026. A warm and relationship-centered Reform rabbi, he is passionate about helping individuals and families find meaning, connection, and belonging through Jewish life. Prior to coming to Shaare Emeth, Rabbi Terkel served as Executive Director of Student to Student, a national program of the Jewish Federations of North America, and previously held leadership roles with Be The Narrative, the Union for Reform Judaism’s NFTY youth movement, Greene Family Camp, and Kahal Kadosh Beth Elohim in Charleston, South Carolina, where he served as Assistant Rabbi.

Rabbi Terkel was ordained by Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, where he also earned a Certificate in Jewish Nonprofit Management, and holds a bachelor’s degree in Political Science and International Studies from the University of Kansas. Originally from Tulsa, Oklahoma, he credits synagogue life, Jewish camp, and youth groups with shaping his Jewish identity and inspiring his rabbinate. Rabbi Terkel enjoys music, storytelling, and creating meaningful Jewish experiences across generations. He and his wife, Hannah, and their sons, Avi and Micah, have been proud members of the Shaare Emeth community since moving to St. Louis in 2022.

Rabbi Lori Levine

Associate Rabbi & Director of Education of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Lori Levine serves as Associate Rabbi and Director of Education at Congregation Shaare Emeth, overseeing the Religious School and creating connections for our families with children to the wider temple community. Originally from New Jersey, Rabbi Levine was shaped by her years at Jewish summer camp, non-profit work, working as a community organizer, living in Israel on the URJ Heller High program, and volunteer work with elders. She received her undergraduate degree from New York University in European and Mediterranean Studies in 2010. She received her rabbinic ordination and Master’s in Jewish Education from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Los Angeles, CA, in 2018.

Rabbi Levine is an experienced and passionate educator with extensive experience in curriculum writing, teacher mentorship, programming, and more. She believes that rigorous, relevant, and joyful learning is the key to creating vibrant Jewish communities and Jewish identities. Rabbi Levine is an active member of the national Association of Reform Jewish Educators (ARJE) and Past President of JPro StL. She is married to Joe Ferris and the proud mom of two boys. 

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Cantor Seth Warner

Cantor of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Cantor Seth Warner, originally from Southern California, has degrees from University of Redlands and Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion. He was ordained in 2001.

He has served two synagogues with distinction during his career. First, he served the historic Touro Synagogue in New Orleans, weathering Hurricane Katrina and producing Touro’s Jazz Fest Shabbat to high acclaim.

He began serving Congregation Shaare Emeth in 2007. He oversees the Congregation’s music and worship portfolios and leads the B’Mitzvah program, in addition to his other cantorial duties as a full clergy partner with his colleagues.

He currently serves as Immediate Past President of the American Conference of Cantors.

Seth and his wife, Shayna, are the proud parents of two boys.

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Rabbi Andrea Goldstein, D.Min

Successor Senior Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Andrea Goldstein received her undergraduate degree in Communications Studies from Northwestern University and was ordained from the Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati, Ohio, in 1998. In May of 2023, Rabbi Goldstein earned her Doctor of Ministry and her honorary Doctor of Divinity from HUC-JIR. She has served as rabbi at Congregation Shaare Emeth for the past 28 years, and in 2028 she will become the congregation’s first female Senior Rabbi.

Rabbi Goldstein is a graduate of the Institute for Jewish Spirituality’s Rabbinic Leadership Program and the Jewish Mindfulness Meditation Teachers’ Training Program, and she holds a certificate in Spiritual Direction from the Aquinas Institute in St. Louis. In 2018, she founded and became the director of the Jewish Mindfulness Center of St. Louis.

Locally, Rabbi Goldstein is a member of the St. Louis Rabbinic and Cantorial Association, serves on the AccessMO Advisory Board, the NCJW Advisory Council, and the Advisory Committee of the Jewish Fund for Human Needs. Nationally, Rabbi Goldstein is an at-large board member of the Central Conference of American Rabbis.

Rabbi Goldstein’s rabbinate is centered around the creation of sacred community, the call for social justice, and the cultivation of spiritual practices. Rabbi Goldstein is married to Brett Goldstein and is the proud mother of Macey, Eli, and Lila.

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Rabbi Jim Bennett

Senior Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi James M. Bennett became Senior Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth in 2004. He received his undergraduate degree from Indiana University and was ordained in 1984 at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati, Ohio. Upon ordination, Rabbi Bennett served Shaare Emeth as Assistant and Associate Rabbi from 1984 to 1993. He then served as Senior Rabbi at Temple Beth El in Charlotte, NC, from 1993-2003 before returning to St. Louis and Shaare Emeth. Rabbi Bennett has devoted his career to strengthening the involvement of youth and adults in programs of education, social justice, spiritual growth, community building, and interfaith relations. Rabbi Bennett and his wife, Amy, have three children, Abigail, Ethan, and Michelle, and their Labrador Retrievers, Gus and Ophelia.


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ABOUT

Leanne & Harvey Schneider

2026 Harris Frank Community Service Award Honorees

Harvey and Leanne Schneider have devoted their lives to strengthening both the Jewish and broader St. Louis communities through leadership, service, education, and a deep commitment to bringing people together.

A St. Louis native, Harvey Schneider attended local public schools before earning both his undergraduate business degree and law degree from Washington University in St. Louis. Following graduation, he moved to Washington, D.C., where he served as a trial attorney in the Tax Division of the U.S. Department of Justice. After five years of federal service, he returned to St. Louis and became a partner in private law practice. Over a legal career spanning more than five decades, Harvey represented family-owned businesses and private individuals in a wide range of business matters.

Harvey’s commitment to civic and Jewish communal life has been equally extensive. He has served as President of Congregation Shaare Emeth, the Interfaith Partnership of Greater St. Louis, the Central Agency for Jewish Education, the Little Symphony Concerts Association, and the Forever Young Club at the Missouri Athletic Club. In addition, he dedicated 26 years to public service on the Planning and Zoning Commission of the City of Town and Country, including three years as chairman.

After graduating from Washington University, Leanne Schneider spent a year studying in France. Upon her return to St. Louis, she became deeply involved in international student exchange programs, first with the Experiment in International Living and later with AFS, fostering cross-cultural understanding and lifelong connections among people of different backgrounds. This commitment to building bridges naturally extended to her involvement with the Interfaith Partnership of Greater St. Louis.

Leanne also taught French and Spanish at Brittany Junior High School before she and Harvey started their family. Throughout the years, she has shared her passion for education and community service by tutoring New Americans through the English Language School, serving on Congregation Shaare Emeth’s first Caring Committee, and volunteering as a reader with Ready Readers. Today, she continues to nurture her love of learning and literature through a book club that includes many members of Congregation Shaare Emeth.

Together, Harvey and Leanne have exemplified a lifetime of generosity, service, and leadership. Their dedication to education, interfaith understanding, civic engagement, and Jewish communal life has enriched countless lives throughout St. Louis. They are the proud parents of three children and grandparents of four, and their enduring legacy continues to inspire future generations.