High Holiday Details

For Everyone: Food Drive, Tzedakah, and AV Club Donations

High Holiday Food Drive & Tzedakah

During this sacred season of reflection and renewal, we are called to open our hearts — and our hands. As we prepare ourselves spiritually for the new year, we are also reminded of our responsibility to care for those in need. This year, our High Holy Day Food Drive carries even greater urgency. Food pantries around the country have lost significant money from governmental support and are struggling to meet the needs of our neighbors — people in our own community who rely on this food to nourish their families.

High Holiday Giving

We hope you will be here for Shaare Emeth and contribute a meaningful gift in honor of this year’s High Holidays to Shaare Emeth’s AV Club. In partnership with the Michael Matlof Connection and Communication Fund, the AV Club supports our ability to live-stream every service, which is vital for accessibility and inclusion.

To make your gift now, please click the link below or contact Beth Kodner at 314-692-5306 if you have any questions. Thank you for your generosity.

For Those Attending On-Site: Childcare, Parking, and Accessibility

High Holiday Childcare

Congregation Shaare Emeth is pleased to be able to offer childcare during Rosh Hashanah & Yom Kippur morning services. For more information, contact Brandi by e-mail or call 314-692-5321.

  • Who: Children ages 6 months – 7 years
  • When: Saturday, September 12, and Monday, September 21, from 9:30–12:30 p.m.
  • Where: Drop-off and pick-up in the preschool hallway
  • Cost: $5 per child per holiday
  • Registration: Advance registration is required. Space is very limited, so register early! 

Parking Locations & Shuttle

In the event our lot fills, overflow parking and shuttles are provided. Plan to arrive early to allow time to park or relocate to overflow parking and take the shuttle.

Overflow Parking Locations:

  • Erev Rosh Hashanah, September 11, from 6:30 p.m. – Scott Properties Medical Offices (456 and 522 N. New Ballas Road)
  • Rosh Hashanah, September 12, from 8:30 a.m. – Scott Properties Medical Offices (456 and 522 N. New Ballas Road)
  • Erev Yom Kippur, September 20, from 6:30 p.m. – Scott Properties Medical Offices (456 and 522 N. New Ballas Road)
  • Yom Kippur, September 21, from 8 a.m. – Elks Lodge #9 (12481 Ladue Road)

Accessibility

Your ability to access our facility and enjoy services to the fullest extent possible is extremely important to us. If there is anything we can do to improve your experience beyond the measures outlined below, please let us know by calling the temple office at 314-569-0010, by e-mailing us, or by approaching a staff or board member wearing a silver nametag.

In addition to our facility being ADA-accessible, hearing assistive devices, large-print prayerbooks, wheelchairs, and walkers are available upon request from the South Lobby reception desk. American Sign Language interpretation is provided for High Holiday services in the Stiffman Sanctuary.

Living Our Values: Welcoming All

At Congregation Shaare Emeth, we are so pleased to invite you to join with us to usher in the year 5785. It is our tradition to extend the warmest possible “Welcome!” as we open our doors to all who wish to join us during the High Holidays and throughout the year. All members of the Congregation and all guests and visitors are welcome to join us for our services; no tickets are necessary.

For Those Attending Online: Prayerbook Pick-Up & Livestreaming

Prayerbook Pick-Up

The beloved Mishkan Hanefesh Machzor two-volume set will again be our prayerbook companion for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. If you are planning to attend services by live-streaming, you may borrow prayerbooks to use at home. Get your set(s) at one of the pick-up times listed below. They are due back before Thursday, October 1.

At pick-up, you will be asked for your credit card number and, if your books are not returned by Thursday, October 1, you will be charged $50. No credit cards will be processed before October 2.

Pick-up Dates & Times in the North Lobby

  • Tuesday, September 8 • 10 a.m.–1 p.m. and 4–7 p.m.
  • Wednesday, September 910 a.m.–Noon and 4–7 p.m.
  • Thursday, September 1010 a.m.–1 p.m.
  • Friday, September 119–11 a.m.

Live Streaming

Congregation Shaare Emeth is proud to offer online viewing options for all of our High Holiday services again this year.

The only link you need is sestl.co/stream. Bookmark it for easy access, even year-to-year!

If at any time you’re experiencing difficulties accessing the livestream:

High Holiday FAQs

About the Season

The High Holidays are the most sacred season of the Jewish year. They begin with Elul, a month of personal reflection, continue through Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, and conclude with the celebrations of Sukkot and Simchat Torah. Together, these holidays focus on self-examination, forgiveness, gratitude, community, and renewal.

The names are often used interchangeably. Both refer to the season centered on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, when Jews devote extra time to prayer, reflection, and spiritual growth.

The Ten Days of Repentance, also called the Days of Awe, begin on Rosh Hashanah and end with Yom Kippur. This period encourages us to repair relationships, seek forgiveness, and recommit ourselves to living according to our values.

Teshuvah is often translated as repentance, but it more literally means “return.” It is the process of returning to our best selves through reflection, accountability, and meaningful change.

For over a decade, it has been our tradition to extend the warmest possible “Welcome!” as we open our doors to all who wish to join us during the High Holidays and throughout the year. All members of the Congregation, guests, and visitors are welcome to join us for our services; no tickets are necessary. Those unable to attend in our building are encouraged to join us via live stream.

For some programs, we request an RSVP. And for select programs, registration is required. Refer to the details for each service and program for specifics and sign-up links.

If you feel so moved, donations to our Annual Appeal, AV Club, or a fund of your choice are appreciated.

The Jewish calendar follows its own dating system. Jewish holidays are typically listed using both the Gregorian year and the Jewish year.

For First-Time Attendees

Absolutely. Congregants, clergy, and staff are happy to help newcomers feel comfortable. You are welcome to participate as much or as little as feels meaningful to you.

Most people choose attire that feels respectful and festive. Some wear business or holiday clothing, while others dress more casually. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable and able to focus on the experience.

Yes. Interfaith families, friends, and guests are welcome to attend and participate in the community experience.

Yes. Our prayerbooks, the Mishkan Hanefesh two-volume series, typically includes English translations and transliterations, making it easy to follow along regardless of Hebrew familiarity.

Rosh Hashanah

Apples dipped in honey symbolize the hope for a sweet and fulfilling new year.

The shofar serves as a spiritual wake-up call. Its sound challenges us to reflect on our actions, renew our commitments, and prepare for the work of teshuvah.

Jewish tradition places less emphasis on resolutions and more on intentional growth. Many people choose one or two specific areas of improvement rather than creating a long list of goals.

Tashlich is a ritual often held near water in which participants symbolically cast away their mistakes and regrets as a way of embracing a fresh start.

It is customary to wish people a “Shanah Tovah” (meaning “a good year” in Hebrew) or simply “Happy New Year.” Another common greeting is “Gut Yontif” (Yiddish for “happy holiday”).

Yom Kippur

Fasting helps create a day focused on spiritual concerns rather than physical needs. It is intended to support prayer, reflection, and repentance.

Fasting is a personal choice. Click here for a variety of Reform Jewish perspectives regarding fasting on the holiest day of the year.

Jewish tradition prioritizes health. People who are ill, pregnant, nursing, recovering from medical procedures, managing eating disorders, or otherwise unable to fast should follow medical advice and care for their well-being.

Start where you are. Many people choose alternative forms of observance if a full fast is not possible. Meaningful participation is more important than perfection.

Kol Nidre is an Aramaic word that translates as ‘All Vows,’ and it is the moving service that opens Yom Kippur. It is one of the most emotionally powerful moments of the Jewish year and marks our entry into the Day of Atonement.

The proper greetings for Yom Kippur are “G’mar chatimah tovah” (may you be sealed for good) and “Have an easy/meaningful fast.” Because Yom Kippur is a solemn day of atonement rather than a celebration, it is customary to avoid saying “Happy Yom Kippur.”

Families & Children

Consider involving them in age-appropriate traditions such as hearing the shofar, dipping apples in honey, setting family goals for kindness, decorating a sukkah, or participating in family programming.

We offer program and worship opportunities for families with children of all ages.

The High Holidays teach that everyone makes mistakes and everyone can grow. Apologizing, making amends, and trying again are central values of the season.

Children are a valued part of Jewish communal life at Shaare Emeth. Families should participate in the ways that work best for them while respecting the shared worship experience. Noise is expected (and even encouraged!) at our Boker Tov worship services on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur mornings.

A Quiet Zone sensory space will be available for families to utilize.

Sukkot & Simchat Torah

A sukkah reminds us of the temporary shelters used by the Israelites during their journey through the wilderness. It also encourages gratitude for life’s blessings and awareness of human vulnerability.

The lulav and etrog are ritual plants used during Sukkot. The lulav consists of three branches: palm, myrtle, and willow. Together, they symbolize unity, diversity, and the many ways people contribute to the Jewish community.

You can order your own lulav and etrog set here.

We have two sukkot at Shaare Emeth – a small one in the North Lobby and a larger one in the courtyard. These are used throughout Sukkot by our preschool and religious school students, as well as members and guests during scheduled programs. Our sukkot are not available to the public. If you are interested in visiting one of our sukkot, please call the temple office at 314-569-0010.

Simchat Torah celebrates the completion of one annual cycle of Torah reading and the beginning of the next. It is a joyful holiday that highlights continuous learning and engagement with Jewish tradition. At Shaare Emeth, as with many congregations, we celebrate by singing and dancing with the Torah, then unrolling the scroll entirely before re-rolling it to the beginning.

Historically, Sh’mini Atzeret and Simchat Torah were two separate holidays (a day of reflection after the end of Sukkot and a celebration of Torah the following day). However, in Israel and in Reform congregations, which generally observe one day of holidays rather than two, Sh’mini Atzeret is observed concurrently with Simchat Torah.

Judaism views learning as a lifelong journey. Beginning again immediately after finishing reminds us that sacred learning never truly ends.

Remembrance & Community

Yizkor is a memorial service during which we remember loved ones who have died and reflect on the impact they continue to have on our lives.

Yes. Many people attend to honor parents, grandparents, siblings, spouses, friends, or others whose memory remains meaningful to them.

The season encourages us not only to reflect inwardly but also to act outwardly. Giving tzedakah and helping those in need are meaningful expressions of Jewish values during this time.

At Shaare Emeth, we collect tzedakah during the High Holidays to distribute to three organizations (two local, one national) dedicated to fighting food insecurity. We also hold a robust food drive between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.

Rabbi Jeffrey Stiffman

Rabbi Emeritus of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Emeritus Jeffrey Stiffman received his undergraduate degree from Loyola College and was ordained in 1965 at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati, Ohio. He earned his Ph.D. in Theology in 1972. He served as Assistant Rabbi of Shaare Emeth from 1965-1968 and was named Senior Rabbi in 1971, serving in that capacity until his retirement in 2004, when he was named Rabbi Emeritus. During his tenure, Rabbi Stiffman and his staff instituted many innovative programs of worship, education, and social justice. Rabbi Stiffman and his wife, Arlene, have three adult children and eight grandchildren.

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Rabbi Morgan Tobey

Assistant Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Morgan Tobey joined the congregation as Assistant Rabbi on July 1, 2026, bringing with her a deep commitment to Jewish learning, leadership, and community building. Originally from Dallas, Texas, Rabbi Tobey’s Jewish journey began during her undergraduate years at the University of Southern California, where her involvement with Hillel introduced her to rabbinical students who challenged her assumptions about Judaism and inspired her own path to the rabbinate. She earned a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science from USC before returning to Dallas, where she worked as an elementary and early childhood educator and served in numerous lay leadership roles at Temple Emanu-El.

Rabbi Tobey was ordained in May 2026 from Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute of Religion, where she also earned a Master of Arts in Hebrew Literature and a Certificate in Jewish Organizational Leadership from the Zelikow School of Jewish Nonprofit Management. During her time at HUC-JIR, she distinguished herself as a talented leader and community builder, receiving the Burton Lehman Prize in Jewish Leadership, the Sylvia Levenstein Prize in Human Relations, and the Gavi Klonsky Award for Amitz Lev—recognizing spirit, character, and strength of heart. Her rabbinical training included service to the Community Synagogue of Rye, Cornell University Hillel, and her classmates as Student Association President.

Outside of synagogue life, you can find Rabbi Tobey cheering on the Dallas Cowboys and Dallas Wings, obsessing over Amy Poehler’s podcast, and planning Disney trips!

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Rabbi Andrew Terkel

Associate Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Andrew Terkel joined Congregation Shaare Emeth as Associate Rabbi in 2026. A warm and relationship-centered Reform rabbi, he is passionate about helping individuals and families find meaning, connection, and belonging through Jewish life. Prior to coming to Shaare Emeth, Rabbi Terkel served as Executive Director of Student to Student, a national program of the Jewish Federations of North America, and previously held leadership roles with Be The Narrative, the Union for Reform Judaism’s NFTY youth movement, Greene Family Camp, and Kahal Kadosh Beth Elohim in Charleston, South Carolina, where he served as Assistant Rabbi.

Rabbi Terkel was ordained by Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, where he also earned a Certificate in Jewish Nonprofit Management, and holds a bachelor’s degree in Political Science and International Studies from the University of Kansas. Originally from Tulsa, Oklahoma, he credits synagogue life, Jewish camp, and youth groups with shaping his Jewish identity and inspiring his rabbinate. Rabbi Terkel enjoys music, storytelling, and creating meaningful Jewish experiences across generations. He and his wife, Hannah, and their sons, Avi and Micah, have been proud members of the Shaare Emeth community since moving to St. Louis in 2022.

Rabbi Lori Levine

Associate Rabbi & Director of Education of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Lori Levine serves as Associate Rabbi and Director of Education at Congregation Shaare Emeth, overseeing the Religious School and creating connections for our families with children to the wider temple community. Originally from New Jersey, Rabbi Levine was shaped by her years at Jewish summer camp, non-profit work, working as a community organizer, living in Israel on the URJ Heller High program, and volunteer work with elders. She received her undergraduate degree from New York University in European and Mediterranean Studies in 2010. She received her rabbinic ordination and Master’s in Jewish Education from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Los Angeles, CA, in 2018.

Rabbi Levine is an experienced and passionate educator with extensive experience in curriculum writing, teacher mentorship, programming, and more. She believes that rigorous, relevant, and joyful learning is the key to creating vibrant Jewish communities and Jewish identities. Rabbi Levine is an active member of the national Association of Reform Jewish Educators (ARJE) and Past President of JPro StL. She is married to Joe Ferris and the proud mom of two boys. 

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Cantor Seth Warner

Cantor of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Cantor Seth Warner, originally from Southern California, has degrees from University of Redlands and Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion. He was ordained in 2001.

He has served two synagogues with distinction during his career. First, he served the historic Touro Synagogue in New Orleans, weathering Hurricane Katrina and producing Touro’s Jazz Fest Shabbat to high acclaim.

He began serving Congregation Shaare Emeth in 2007. He oversees the Congregation’s music and worship portfolios and leads the B’Mitzvah program, in addition to his other cantorial duties as a full clergy partner with his colleagues.

He currently serves as Immediate Past President of the American Conference of Cantors.

Seth and his wife, Shayna, are the proud parents of two boys.

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Rabbi Andrea Goldstein, D.Min

Successor Senior Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi Andrea Goldstein received her undergraduate degree in Communications Studies from Northwestern University and was ordained from the Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati, Ohio, in 1998. In May of 2023, Rabbi Goldstein earned her Doctor of Ministry and her honorary Doctor of Divinity from HUC-JIR. She has served as rabbi at Congregation Shaare Emeth for the past 28 years, and in 2028 she will become the congregation’s first female Senior Rabbi.

Rabbi Goldstein is a graduate of the Institute for Jewish Spirituality’s Rabbinic Leadership Program and the Jewish Mindfulness Meditation Teachers’ Training Program, and she holds a certificate in Spiritual Direction from the Aquinas Institute in St. Louis. In 2018, she founded and became the director of the Jewish Mindfulness Center of St. Louis.

Locally, Rabbi Goldstein is a member of the St. Louis Rabbinic and Cantorial Association, serves on the AccessMO Advisory Board, the NCJW Advisory Council, and the Advisory Committee of the Jewish Fund for Human Needs. Nationally, Rabbi Goldstein is an at-large board member of the Central Conference of American Rabbis.

Rabbi Goldstein’s rabbinate is centered around the creation of sacred community, the call for social justice, and the cultivation of spiritual practices. Rabbi Goldstein is married to Brett Goldstein and is the proud mother of Macey, Eli, and Lila.

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Rabbi Jim Bennett

Senior Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth

Rabbi James M. Bennett became Senior Rabbi of Congregation Shaare Emeth in 2004. He received his undergraduate degree from Indiana University and was ordained in 1984 at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati, Ohio. Upon ordination, Rabbi Bennett served Shaare Emeth as Assistant and Associate Rabbi from 1984 to 1993. He then served as Senior Rabbi at Temple Beth El in Charlotte, NC, from 1993-2003 before returning to St. Louis and Shaare Emeth. Rabbi Bennett has devoted his career to strengthening the involvement of youth and adults in programs of education, social justice, spiritual growth, community building, and interfaith relations. Rabbi Bennett and his wife, Amy, have three children, Abigail, Ethan, and Michelle, and their Labrador Retrievers, Gus and Ophelia.


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Friday, September 11, 2026

Shanah Tovah!

Let’s ring in 5787 together.

ABOUT

Leanne & Harvey Schneider

2026 Harris Frank Community Service Award Honorees

Harvey and Leanne Schneider have devoted their lives to strengthening both the Jewish and broader St. Louis communities through leadership, service, education, and a deep commitment to bringing people together.

A St. Louis native, Harvey Schneider attended local public schools before earning both his undergraduate business degree and law degree from Washington University in St. Louis. Following graduation, he moved to Washington, D.C., where he served as a trial attorney in the Tax Division of the U.S. Department of Justice. After five years of federal service, he returned to St. Louis and became a partner in private law practice. Over a legal career spanning more than five decades, Harvey represented family-owned businesses and private individuals in a wide range of business matters.

Harvey’s commitment to civic and Jewish communal life has been equally extensive. He has served as President of Congregation Shaare Emeth, the Interfaith Partnership of Greater St. Louis, the Central Agency for Jewish Education, the Little Symphony Concerts Association, and the Forever Young Club at the Missouri Athletic Club. In addition, he dedicated 26 years to public service on the Planning and Zoning Commission of the City of Town and Country, including three years as chairman.

After graduating from Washington University, Leanne Schneider spent a year studying in France. Upon her return to St. Louis, she became deeply involved in international student exchange programs, first with the Experiment in International Living and later with AFS, fostering cross-cultural understanding and lifelong connections among people of different backgrounds. This commitment to building bridges naturally extended to her involvement with the Interfaith Partnership of Greater St. Louis.

Leanne also taught French and Spanish at Brittany Junior High School before she and Harvey started their family. Throughout the years, she has shared her passion for education and community service by tutoring New Americans through the English Language School, serving on Congregation Shaare Emeth’s first Caring Committee, and volunteering as a reader with Ready Readers. Today, she continues to nurture her love of learning and literature through a book club that includes many members of Congregation Shaare Emeth.

Together, Harvey and Leanne have exemplified a lifetime of generosity, service, and leadership. Their dedication to education, interfaith understanding, civic engagement, and Jewish communal life has enriched countless lives throughout St. Louis. They are the proud parents of three children and grandparents of four, and their enduring legacy continues to inspire future generations.